What the hell. So many changes in just 1 year. I was always sorrounded by friends. or may be it was me who was hanging out with'em. but watever I was with humans.
But now, today, I have no friends. I mean I do, but I have no clues what they r doing. (3 r an exception, who make it a point to tell me wassup in their life). Its like a I have taken a vow not to call others and not pick their calls or return their SMS and I am not interested in making new friends. I cant blame my professional life for this. I can blame it on my sunsign --Aquarius for being so aloof and detached. I was never like an aloof and detached aquarian in my school and college. I think I have realized my aquarius traits over the past 1 year. Seriously, I have behaved like a true acquarian in the past year.
The other day, I was shell shocked when somebody told me "you have a very serious face. A smile would help ". Tell me about it, I mean, ppl always used to tell me to shut my mouth and today, there is a person who says - i had a serious face. I agree, I wasnt the funniest and the wittiest person around but i did have my PJ's going, teasing my friends or pulling their leg and I was always smiling if not laughing.Now, ppl say "smile". Lemme tell u a few more things.
I pinged an old friend and just out of courtesy asked : hows ur sis and mom? A sane person would say fine,right?. But she, being my friend, says "all r fine... thank u... is everything fine with u? "
I asked "y?"
She said " coz.. u r suddenly... so concerned... abt me and my family... it cant happen on a regular day"
What the HELL. I was trying to be nice!!!
Thrs another friend whom i asked exactly the same question : "hows ur mom?"
She says "y suddenly?"
I thot it was a normal human tendency to enquire abt the other person's family. BAH!!!
And KUDOS to the kind of conv i have these days on chat:
frnd : hey
me : hey
frnd : how r u?
me : am fine. how abt u?
frnd : fine. hows work?
me : sorta hectic. how abt urs?
frnd : mamool.
me : oota aaytha?
frnd : yup. urs?
me :yup. done.
After 2 hrs, frnd : gotto go bye, gn
me : byeeee.
Somedays i do ask abt their parents and siblings and get bashed. Mind u this is exactly the kinda conv I have these days. I am not kidding.
I am waiting for a miracle and hoping that the same person who said i had a serious face gets to c my funny face. I still cant understand, how can she say tht i have serious face? Or may be I do.
BAH
5 comments:
Actually you DO have a serious face :|
:P
And maybe TRYING to be nice is not such a good idea.
I cant believe it. When have u seen me Iceman? I am waiting for my friends to comment this now.
Heeheehee...
Ofcourse I haven't seen ya! That was just to push your buttons.
I agree man,life has become serious and yes we are too,without our knowledge.I can also feel that.
Just think,we meet for an hour or two these days.You think u'll be the same those 2 hours and when u return back to ur office??
Absolutely not,you may not be sad,u may not be depressed,u might not have any problems,but still theres no surprise when ur colleague says so!
Today,what we "think" we are,actually is not others feel!unfortunate....
well.. i think the problem really is that ppl find an instant comfort level that they don't need the usual formal stuff with u.. That's the case when i speak to u.. so when u ask such q's it may sound weird.. it's a compliment really.. :P enjoy it..
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